Love Game

Disclaimer: I am inebriated, therefore am struck with English mode. Everything written here was made by my drunken ass, but I think I'm sane enough to make sense.

Are you sure that he/she likes you, or you're just 'feeling' it?

According to some sources, you'd know when someone even has the slightest attraction to you. There are, as people know it, signs. It's the basic psychology of humans to interpret these signals, just as it is basic nature for us to produce them.

Now, the big question is, Are you sure that he/she likes you, or you're just 'feeling' it?

• Everything that goes in between two people starts from the mouth...

While unanimously true, it is unlikely that people would notice this, especially if this person involved is pretty much 'in your inner circle'.  There is a certain level of familiarity that exists between you and this person, causing you to neglect the fact that this, in reality, is a big sign. You'd notice that people talk differently to their friends, colleagues, and other group of people than to those they have the slightest (or the heaviest) attraction to. Most often than not, they will try to cover it, even deny it. Only those who are experienced would be able to hide this sign so well enough it will go unnoticed to the untrained eye.

• There will be no friction unless there are at least two bodies colliding...

This is even harder to decipher. Most people tend to 'not' touch people they are attracted to, as it makes them lose control. Others do the opposite because they can't help it. As with the first case, it is those people who are of high pride - they possess high self control. That, or they respect the person enough not to let them be bothered by their feelings. That, or they can't reach you. That, or they simply cannot. The next case is for those who are 'touchy-feely' type of person. Most often than not, their contacts are slightly, if not much, briefer than normal, or they flinch or do something minuscule before and after the contact.

• You'd have to learn the Inclusion-Exclusion principle...

There are some people who'd rather have their 'crushes' within their network. It comes with territory. They'd rather have them checked than to not see them at all. Others would exclude them from their network because they rather not have any relations to that person (as the line goes, "I would always want to be looking at you from somewhere"). Others include, then exclude. But, you'd notice this very frequently for people who are unstable of their feelings.

Enough said, it will take time for one to know if one really is attracted to you. But there's always one way to know that will never fail you: ask.